Days 1–7
The first week
What's typical
- Bleeding (lochia rubra) is bright to dark red and heaviest over the first 3 days — like a very heavy period, sometimes with small clots (quarter-sized or less) after lying down. Soaking through a pad an hour is not normal — see the warning signs.
- Afterpains: crampy contractions as the uterus shrinks back down, strongest while feeding and usually sharper with second and later babies. They ease within a few days.
- Milk "comes in" around day 3–5 — breasts full, warm, sometimes uncomfortably engorged, whether or not you plan to breastfeed.
- Baby blues hit most new parents: weepiness, mood swings, and feeling overwhelmed, typically starting around day 2–3 and peaking around day 4–5.
- Drenching night sweats as your body offloads pregnancy fluid — normal as long as there's no fever (100.4°F is the line).
After a vaginal birth
Perineal soreness, swelling, and stinging with urination are expected — peri bottles, ice packs, and sitz baths help, and stitches dissolve on their own. Your first bowel movement may take a few days; stool softeners are fair game.
After a cesarean
You've had major abdominal surgery: incision pain that needs regular medication is expected, and standing slightly hunched is normal. Lift nothing heavier than your baby, and hold a pillow against the incision when you cough, laugh, or sneeze.
On the calendar: ACOG's schedule starts now: you should know exactly how to reach your care team, and your first contact with them is due within 3 weeks — sooner if you had blood-pressure problems in pregnancy, a cesarean, or feeding trouble.